I went salsa dancing against my will last night, and ....I think I met my future husband. BUT he doesn't know it yet. He's fabulous and tall with a nerdy chic kind of look and has warm hands that fit perfectly with mine--which I only know from dancing, but he volunteered to be my partner during the lesson and continued to hold my hand even when the other people weren't holding hands. I think I'm a believer in love at first sight now. And I'm definitely a believer in love at first dance! Here's the crazy part though...I realized later that night that I had been matched with him on eHarmony while I was subscribed. I was communicating with him, but he hadn't responded when my subscription ran out. Since I had given up on online dating I just let my subscription end and didn't check back. I checked last night though and he did respond a while later, and of course at that time I was not only unsubscribed but I was briefly dating someone else.
Anyway, since I have a unique name he has to have figured out that he knows me from online. So now my conundrum is, do I mention it? Do I wait for him to mention it? Should I worry that he won't make a move because I didn't respond to his online dating communication?? Maybe he hasn't made the connection, but he asked how to spell my name. That had to trigger something. But there was distinct flirting and more importantly distinct chemistry.
Oh what a pickle!
Woah, that's exciting. He sounds great. I personally probably would not say anything unless he brought it up first. I'm not really into making the first move, if a guy is interested in me then he should make it clear. But if you're a bit bolder than me, then go for it. :)
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